"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Okay so I seem to be going through a rough patch at the minute .... I had a pretty bad year last year and hit rock bottom .. No job/money/no women etc.. Since then I'm back in work and have decent amount of savings ... The only thing that's no going well is my love life. Id say I was a fairly decent looking guy, but my personality not do great ... Or so I seem. I'm 32 and this just doesn't seem to be improving at all ... What can I do to improve on this ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Having money on your pocket and bank gives you a good degree of confidence. So just go out and meet new women, like in group activities, meetup group meetings, do sports, and have fun (because now you can afford it). I would also say try some online dating but dont put all your chips there.
 
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External stuff cannot fix an internal problem.
Your money won't magically transform your personality into Mr Handsome. You're still feeling sorry for yourself.

Do something you think is fun, do it just for you. Bring your mood up, it makes a ton of difference.

Don't try to get women to get happy, you won't have them before happiness and fun is what you have to offer. So lift your mood with something else.
 
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Do something for you
 
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Get a second job... or third....

Money talks......
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've managed to save £13,000 .. Just about to book a nice sunny holiday then come back all fresh and ready for change
 
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