Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Salsa is MUCH harder than it looks. It's very easy to tell when a guys good and when he's a n00b like meeatgel said:
Salsa when done right can look very sexy. Don't forget that you're almost in constant contact with the woman.I agree salsa is the number 1 way to go if you want to meet women. But for me its not about that... its for the love and challenge of dancing. !Maxtro said:Do Salsa. 99% of the time there will be more girls then guys. You will always have a girl partner to dance with.
Salsa is MUCH harder than it looks. It's very easy to tell when a guys good and when he's a n00b like me
I'm not trying to knock breaking at all, but if you want to meet women you want to do a couples dance. I may be wrong but I almost never see women doing break dancing.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Break dancing is very competative boss. Being able to double air flare takes much more strength then the average person can present. I couldn't do a one handed hand stand a year ago until I started rocking with my crew.Hooligan Harry said:
You can teach yourself. I learned on my own, but I also had to do different strength training excercises. I worked out on my own prior, typical work out weights and cardio, but doing something like P90X or any other hybrid style workout is what will get you there. Combo stretching, low weights with high reps and tons of cardio and all you'll need will be a few you tube videos to b boy like a pro.DamHE said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Rocking with your crew?PRMoon said: