"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Running into ex with her new BF. Any tips on how to react?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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dustmuffin

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Say hello and keep moving. Be confident and calm. Don't camp out and chit chat.
 

HoneyHitter

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Ignore.
 

Spinach

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Be cool, calm and collected.....then go home and punch the wall, drink a fifth, and be miserable for the next week....
 

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Say "Hi hows it going" to them. Nod at him, then move on. If she stops and wants to talk, say as little as possible, be "in a hurry". Say "good talking to you guys" and move on.. Never act mad, upset, etc.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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latinnova

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Shake his hand and thank him for taking her off your hands, tell him to have a good one and walk off....

Seriously though, if they come up to you just say hello, nice to meet you, and move on. Why waste time with these people? It will benefit you in no way.
 

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just have a hotter one on your arm. It tears women up if you've moved on. Even it THEY broke up/ Divorced you..... then they aren't that "special little snowflake" in your life
 

glass half full

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one way to think of this, is to remember the infamous FB post, about "giving your toys to the less fortunate". :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Smile, say, "Good to see you guys", congratulate, and then, keep on doing your thing - i.e. picking up other chicks
 
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