"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Running a business

Goku

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I am going to run a business with a friend of mine. The profits are going to be half half after taxes.

Let say, we both put our own money, time and ideas into the business. We will go on our seperate ways and try to sell items individually. I am worried that he might not be honest and try to decieve me with the amount of items he sell. Is there a way to handle this situation.

And when the business starts to take off and rake in the $$$, what is there to stop him from taking all the money and moving off to another country. What can I do? Getting a legal letter or something from a lawyer?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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g g g unit

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yeah get a lawyer to write up a contract for you two.
 

Docs

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Well, these products come from somewhere, right? That means, if you brought in 3000 on an order, and you sold 1000, but there's only 500 left in the warehouse...

That might work.
 

KillaCam

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If you don't trust him, don't go into business with him.
 

RedPill

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The fact that trust is already a concern, even if it is a minor one, means you should not be going into business with this person. Trust me on this. It'll be like a bad marriage. Your gut instinct is usually right. Don't let your friendship fog your business decision-making. There are plenty of guys who I'd go have a beer with, but would never in a thousand years go into business with them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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