alright so here would be my first post so bare with me. i'm really kicking myself for not continuing reading this site as i talked with this girl rather than falling into my typical self. so here's the story
so a girl from work (lets call her sara) had a birthday get together where everyone from work met at a local bar and drank and had fun. while mingling with the people i came across a girl (call her jane) who happened to be sara's cousin. as we sat at a table, i made small talk with her but, we were cut short due to her having an early day the following morning. so i spoke with sara and arraigned a little meet up with jane, sara and sara's bf. so we met and things we well, so i waited the typical 3 or 4 days and called jane and set up another get together, just her and me. we went on our date/hangout and talked and had a really good time. so this went on for a month, the problem is i felt i had a need to make sure she knew i was interested so i txted or called her everyday. yes, big mistake now that i did some reading. well, things were going smooth, we ended up at my house watching a movie, we were talking and i had he laughing and just having an overall great time. but me, being the 'unconfident' man i've been all my life, i missed a HUGE opportunity to make a move and progress the situation. luckily before that date, she agreed to be my valentine leaving me a window for another opportunity. unfortunately, valentine's day is a day that work requires me to be present so my plans became twisted and didnt end up the way i wanted. pretty much the night ended and i was still in the situation. now that i have progressed my reading and had some practice with other women, my question is this. is there anyway of being able to pull her back in? i feel that she has drifted away and i wont get a chance to hangout with her again. if it doesnt happen i'm not going to fret over it, and i've accepted that fact, but does anyone have any suggestions as to what i may do to lure her back? she's a dime and we both share a lot of things in common, but i feel that i did not assert confidence and it may have driven her away. so i'll leave this be and give me some feedback, if you need any info ask. thx
so a girl from work (lets call her sara) had a birthday get together where everyone from work met at a local bar and drank and had fun. while mingling with the people i came across a girl (call her jane) who happened to be sara's cousin. as we sat at a table, i made small talk with her but, we were cut short due to her having an early day the following morning. so i spoke with sara and arraigned a little meet up with jane, sara and sara's bf. so we met and things we well, so i waited the typical 3 or 4 days and called jane and set up another get together, just her and me. we went on our date/hangout and talked and had a really good time. so this went on for a month, the problem is i felt i had a need to make sure she knew i was interested so i txted or called her everyday. yes, big mistake now that i did some reading. well, things were going smooth, we ended up at my house watching a movie, we were talking and i had he laughing and just having an overall great time. but me, being the 'unconfident' man i've been all my life, i missed a HUGE opportunity to make a move and progress the situation. luckily before that date, she agreed to be my valentine leaving me a window for another opportunity. unfortunately, valentine's day is a day that work requires me to be present so my plans became twisted and didnt end up the way i wanted. pretty much the night ended and i was still in the situation. now that i have progressed my reading and had some practice with other women, my question is this. is there anyway of being able to pull her back in? i feel that she has drifted away and i wont get a chance to hangout with her again. if it doesnt happen i'm not going to fret over it, and i've accepted that fact, but does anyone have any suggestions as to what i may do to lure her back? she's a dime and we both share a lot of things in common, but i feel that i did not assert confidence and it may have driven her away. so i'll leave this be and give me some feedback, if you need any info ask. thx