"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr.De Beer

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Just came back from a local party thing. Not alot of people, but enough to make it alive (the way I like it.) There, I met this unbelievable woman. HB8+, a sense of humour, sexy, fun, smart, you name it. I had a really great time with her, but the best part is, I got her interested in me. Im going away on vacation tmorow, but I want a relationship with this girl when I return. I thought it was best not to kiss her tonight, but rather on the date we are going on next week. I know some of you will say, that it will lock your relationship with her untill I see her again. But she's a very conservative girl and doesnt screw every guy she likes. Did I fck it up by not kissing her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i don't quite get the question..you think you should have kissed her so she wouldn't 'cheat' on you while you where gone or find another guy?
 

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Always get as much as you can as soon as you can. Sure some girls will try to break off contact for fear of seeming a slut. But the majority will do the opposite, they will rationailze their behavior saying to themselves "I must really like this guy, or he is a great guy, etc"..So the kiss will force her to think about you when you arent there in a GOOD way.

A kiss is fairly innocent as well. I don't care how conservative a girl is supposed to be. If she is into you at least a little and if you did your job correctly you can at least get ( AND GIVE ) a passionate kiss.
 
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