"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Right arm stronger than left arm?

ChrizZ

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Well, my right arm is stronger than my left arm. Although I do the same exercises all the time with both arms, my right arm is way stronger. If you look at both arms you can´t see a difference caus the right arm is as big as the left arm.
Stupid question, but can that be because of masturbation?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I wouldn't know, it takes two hands to handle my whopper
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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ChrizZ said:
Well, my right arm is stronger than my left arm. Although I do the same exercises all the time with both arms, my right arm is way stronger. If you look at both arms you can´t see a difference caus the right arm is as big as the left arm.
Stupid question, but can that be because of masturbation?

It's not because masterbation. Typically everybody's dominant arm is their strong arm. This is the common case.

To even it up, when you do iso-exercises or DBs, do 2-3 extra reps with your weak hand.

This was the advice given in Men's Health about 5 years ago. I followed and after a couple of months My strength had evened out. Though my right forearm has always still been more defined.
 

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I'm left handed and my right arm is the stronger one.
Usually its the one I favor when I carry groceries or flex for people. If you check the pictures in my journal on this page, you can see that there is a definite size difference between the two as well.

I agree with Teflon on maybe adding a rep or two. Either that or it will eventually even out as you go.
 

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Adding extra reps and using your left hand more often than right will increase size on your "secondary" arm.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Hitman10000 said:
Adding extra reps and using your left hand more often than right will increase size on your "secondary" arm.
I wouldn't exactly say that. If thats all it took, we could grow indefinatley.
 

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yep, my right arm is alittle stronger than my right too. it's that way with everyone cuz u use that arm more, so the other one jus sits back and slacks off,lol. using ur other arm more should make it alittle stronger, but if there is a huge size difference, than u defenantly need to fix that. try moving slower during reps and usein about 8 to 12 reps to gain size. also eat more,lol. everyone has a small size difference, but it's usually not noticable.
 
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