I have noticed something about "sluts". It does not make sense for men to demonize slutty behavior. Sluts are not abnormal. They are what you would expect. Its the girl that is only a slut to the top 10% of men that is the aberration. There are 2 types of girls. Let me explain.
** as a disclaimer this post only applies to men that are average guys. If you are reasonably good looking and socially well adapted. Most men are similar enough that they fall somewhere in the 50th percentile. This only applies to them. If you are obese and weird even hot sluts won't let you smash**
1.) The average hot western girl has a lot options. This distorts everything. Even after they meet a decent guy they end up as some form of orbiter. She definitely sees value in the average orbiter. She calls him, goes on a date with him and hangs out with him. There is nothing wrong with him. For most of human history he would have been a catch. He still is and she knows it but he is being outranked by her perceived options. She will not have sex with him. With holding sex from orbiters is a dating strategy and has nothing to do with lack of attraction.
She is perceived as not slutty, even though she has the same urge to hook up with him as the slutty girl. She just doesnt becuz she has other higher ranking guys to hook up with. It would compromise her SMV if any one found out. This chasteness has nothing to do with a lack of sexual appetite. It is just rank. This is why ugly girls will fu** that same average guy. You think that ugly girls just have different hormones?? No. Its supply and demand. Check out this link.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=169885
2.) The slut is just a girl who sleeps with every guy that meets her baseline criteria. She is not running any manipulation game in order to use her orbiters as back up. Its not that she is slutty. Its just that she recognizes that a lot of guys are reasonably funny, decent looking and cool. Why put them in the orbiter position if they meet the minimal criteria. She does not recognize the advantage to having a dating strategy where only top guys smash. The slut is a girl that is not artificially picky. This does not mean that a slut has no standards. It just means that her standards are somewhat sane and reasonable. The criteria is be in decent shape, be cool, be funny, and then you will RELIABLY hit the sexual interest mark for a slut. To be honest hot sluts get hit on dozens of times a week. So even if a girl has been with 20 guys she is a lot more picky than her number would suggest.
With a non slut hot chick (9/10) you can be reasonably charming, good looking, and cool but that does not mean that you will reliably hit that sexual interest goal. This is just a ticket to the friendzone or orbiter status. You gotta be famous or sumthing lol.
In my life i have had sex with only a few hot chicks 8/10's. Some of them have been promiscuous. I appreciate that they recognized my worth and that their expectations in a partner were reasonable. The down side to this is that there are a lot of decent looking cool guys out there, so these girls can easily replace you if u guys are not in a relationship. My point is that dont demonize hot sluts that let u smash becuz you are only working against ur best interest. As men we cant complain about how hard it is to get laid becuz of the ridiculously high standards of hot chicks and then demonize hot chicks that let normal guys smash. The only time a girl should be called a slut is if she cheats on you in a relationship. Not all sluts cheat in a relationship.
This is a funny video about what i am saying http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jxzW1BP4AEQ
Oh and more importantly as men we need to stop hanging out with girls that have unreasonably high standards. You will be a lot happier. Hang out with hot chicks that are slutty. These are like hippy chicks, european girls (liberal sexual attitude), non conservative chicks, hot cougars etc.....Much of the bitterness towards women will melt away. When i hung out with European girls it was a whole different universe of p***. They just didnt have the same attitude about only gunning for only the top dogs...American girls consider them slutty.
** as a disclaimer this post only applies to men that are average guys. If you are reasonably good looking and socially well adapted. Most men are similar enough that they fall somewhere in the 50th percentile. This only applies to them. If you are obese and weird even hot sluts won't let you smash**
1.) The average hot western girl has a lot options. This distorts everything. Even after they meet a decent guy they end up as some form of orbiter. She definitely sees value in the average orbiter. She calls him, goes on a date with him and hangs out with him. There is nothing wrong with him. For most of human history he would have been a catch. He still is and she knows it but he is being outranked by her perceived options. She will not have sex with him. With holding sex from orbiters is a dating strategy and has nothing to do with lack of attraction.
She is perceived as not slutty, even though she has the same urge to hook up with him as the slutty girl. She just doesnt becuz she has other higher ranking guys to hook up with. It would compromise her SMV if any one found out. This chasteness has nothing to do with a lack of sexual appetite. It is just rank. This is why ugly girls will fu** that same average guy. You think that ugly girls just have different hormones?? No. Its supply and demand. Check out this link.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=169885
2.) The slut is just a girl who sleeps with every guy that meets her baseline criteria. She is not running any manipulation game in order to use her orbiters as back up. Its not that she is slutty. Its just that she recognizes that a lot of guys are reasonably funny, decent looking and cool. Why put them in the orbiter position if they meet the minimal criteria. She does not recognize the advantage to having a dating strategy where only top guys smash. The slut is a girl that is not artificially picky. This does not mean that a slut has no standards. It just means that her standards are somewhat sane and reasonable. The criteria is be in decent shape, be cool, be funny, and then you will RELIABLY hit the sexual interest mark for a slut. To be honest hot sluts get hit on dozens of times a week. So even if a girl has been with 20 guys she is a lot more picky than her number would suggest.
With a non slut hot chick (9/10) you can be reasonably charming, good looking, and cool but that does not mean that you will reliably hit that sexual interest goal. This is just a ticket to the friendzone or orbiter status. You gotta be famous or sumthing lol.
In my life i have had sex with only a few hot chicks 8/10's. Some of them have been promiscuous. I appreciate that they recognized my worth and that their expectations in a partner were reasonable. The down side to this is that there are a lot of decent looking cool guys out there, so these girls can easily replace you if u guys are not in a relationship. My point is that dont demonize hot sluts that let u smash becuz you are only working against ur best interest. As men we cant complain about how hard it is to get laid becuz of the ridiculously high standards of hot chicks and then demonize hot chicks that let normal guys smash. The only time a girl should be called a slut is if she cheats on you in a relationship. Not all sluts cheat in a relationship.
This is a funny video about what i am saying http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jxzW1BP4AEQ
Oh and more importantly as men we need to stop hanging out with girls that have unreasonably high standards. You will be a lot happier. Hang out with hot chicks that are slutty. These are like hippy chicks, european girls (liberal sexual attitude), non conservative chicks, hot cougars etc.....Much of the bitterness towards women will melt away. When i hung out with European girls it was a whole different universe of p***. They just didnt have the same attitude about only gunning for only the top dogs...American girls consider them slutty.
