"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone know the one I'm talking about? It was from about 2 years ago. I tried to look, but I can't find it. I wanted to post something on reddit in reponse to Roissy's thread on the subject of women being less principled:

http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/npds4/women_are_less_principled_than_men/

My take on it is that women aren't raised with trust, honor, loyalty, etc being drilled into them they way boys are, and instead are raised to basically think of themselves all others be damned.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Close, but that's not the one I was looking for. Thanks anyway. The one I'm thinking of I'm pretty sure I posted in relating to my idea that Honor, Loyalty, etc being masculine traits and why women lack them in any meaningful measure, and combined with their rationalization hamster they're incapable of espousing those traits/moral character when the rubber meets the road.

This is a relevant thread too, but not the one I'm looking for: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=162546

EDIT:

I think I found it, but it looks like it was removed for some reason: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1541755&postcount=62
It was referenced in this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=159809&page=2
 
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