"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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punk_rocker1993

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i need help getting a girlfriend. my friend has a high reputation in my school and either all the girls like him or any girl he asks' out always says yes.on the other hand, i dont have a high rep and i dont get many girlfriends. so im thinking maybe if i can get a high reputation, i have a better chance of getting a girlfriend. can anyone tell me maybe a way to get a reputation in school so i can get a girl.please help.



thanks, punk_rocker1993
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ascalon

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In my opinion you have to express yourself in a way,which everybody will notice.
I mean if you can play on guitar , play on meetings with your friends. If you can play soccer or basketball - practice them in the school playground,so the girls will see ya. Cheer up and accept the challenges the life gives you.
Go out with friends,meet some new people and when you see a cool girl dont stare and her but act. Your friend may be cute for many girls but this doesnt mean that you cant be cute for one (at least :p )


Good luck and dont panic whatever happens :)
 

Tau

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Don't limit yourself to just your high school. Meet some girls online or get some friends in other schools and meet chicks through them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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