"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Reputation Points [Merged thread]

Gubby

Master Don Juan
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Latinoman said:
Anyone can pick chicks. All you have to do is go to a bar and lie to some drunk "chick".

DJ is about self-improvement. You might not reach TRUE DJism until you reach your 30s. Some might bloom a little early (mid to late 20s).
I know...I know...it sucks. But that's life.
We all have our starting levels. (It's good to know everyone else sucks too:D)

Though if some ideas about rebirth are true perhaps we're all a lot older than we give ourselves credit for ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Señor Fingers

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Wherever I am.
For the longest time I was oblivious to this system, it was really iqqi that brought it to my attention.

At first the idea seemed a little silly, but I have grown to appreciate one particular facet of this and that is the ability to see which of your posts got repped. It helps you get a better grasp of what people truly resonate with. In this regard, the responses have been surprising to say the least.

I do have one request for the mods here. Would it be possible to see your entire rep history (or at least more than the last 5 reps)?
 

The Bat

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Señor Fingers said:
I do have one request for the mods here. Would it be possible to see your entire rep history (or at least more than the last 5 reps)?
FYI...you can do this now. :up:
 

Maxtro

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Is there any way to change your rank? Back on page 1 flippinfreak is a Registered User with 924 posts. Anyway we can drop the Master Don Juan title and just give it to people with high rep and make everybody else Registered User? Frankly I'd rather be a Registered User until I step up my game.

As for rep, I've noticed a great deal of people have recently added more squares. Is it now easier to get a higher reputation or is it simply that more people are now playing the reputation game?
 

Quiksilver

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Yes we reviewed the dormant reputation system a couple months back, and made some changes.

Here is how it stands:

-Start with 1 point of rep altering power.
-Gain 1 point of rep altering power per 73 days as a member.
-Gain 1 point of rep altering power per 100 points.
-Must have 40 posts before your rep points count on others.
-You get a new dark green dot below your name every 100 points. (100 points = 2 dots)
-A new light green dot after that for every 200 points, up to 5 dark and 6 light dots. (1500 points = 11 dots)
Aside from that, it has been used more often recently and we encourage each other to use it. If you like what someone has written, send them some rep points. The Rep button is in the bottom left corner of each post.

cheers bro
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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