"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Reputation on the line...

mtlwlu

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I got an interesting text from a girl ...

"I backed off, cause I heard some things, and I dont want to end up being "that girl"..."

Any response?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

fertileTurtle

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"Why not? I'm that guy."
 

DonJuanit0

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Same problem here! You don't care about your girl you cheat you put your d*ck above everything etc... Have heard it a lot even from friends who after a while of knowing me better talked to me and said everything they've heard for me! I've even heard that I have bitten a girl LOL! Many of them are true, just like in you I guess cause no romours come out of nowhere, but you either can prove them wrong or even accept what will make you a greater catch!

A good way for using this bad reputation is: "If you think I am that guy maybe you should get to know me better and see for yourself what I am all about"

Advertisment is good even if it's something bad! In my college a teacher told us that there was one guy who had written a book about how bad the advertisments are! The book didn't sell at all so he came to the point that he had to, and advertised it on tv!
 
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