was at a party tonight and observed some interesting things...and no obviously i didnt pull any ass otherwise i wouldnt be sitting here lol...but anyways, i notice a lot of guys here over-analyze stuff and i do it as well, but its not always a good thing. analyzing behavior is good because it can help you approach situations better in the future, but when you over-do it over simple things you can literally drive yourself insane, and it also puts far too much value on the actions of others. your actions are always much more important than her actions. you can adjust your actions to better benefit you by taking her's into account, but reaching great lengths to try and make sense of her actions is no way to live -- its a miserable state of mind. even if you don't let it show that you're doing it in your head, the fact that you are in that mindset can kill your whole mood and leave you not at the best you can be.
you need to remember that even hot girls are retards sometimes too and cant be put on pedestals. they do silly pointless things which you can't constantly analyze and punish yourself over. examples: willingly watching tv shows/movies that make them cry (i mean seriously why would you do that?). thinking chihuahua's have a purpose in the world. and so on. i won't even start on their actions towards men because i could go for days.
of course we should treat women as equals, but on the inside you need to know that you are #1 and your needs, wants, actions, etc are always the most important in the situation. a lot of you dont need to hear this but a lot do need the reminder to stop being so hard on yourself and remember to be alpha, in control, centered, calm, and confident
a sweet girl can turn into a cold b!tch at the snap of a finger for any random reason, and you need to remain in control of yourself. dont let anyone else control you, your actions, your state of mind or your happiness -- whether directly or indirectly.
you need to remember that even hot girls are retards sometimes too and cant be put on pedestals. they do silly pointless things which you can't constantly analyze and punish yourself over. examples: willingly watching tv shows/movies that make them cry (i mean seriously why would you do that?). thinking chihuahua's have a purpose in the world. and so on. i won't even start on their actions towards men because i could go for days.
of course we should treat women as equals, but on the inside you need to know that you are #1 and your needs, wants, actions, etc are always the most important in the situation. a lot of you dont need to hear this but a lot do need the reminder to stop being so hard on yourself and remember to be alpha, in control, centered, calm, and confident
a sweet girl can turn into a cold b!tch at the snap of a finger for any random reason, and you need to remain in control of yourself. dont let anyone else control you, your actions, your state of mind or your happiness -- whether directly or indirectly.