Cold approaching during the day is the toughest approach there is for most people. I am not going to go over all of the reasons why people fear cold approaches as i would be beating a dead horse and you guys already know all about that.
What i WILL tell you is this: Bad reactions to a cold approach are rare.
If you approach a woman in public, assuming you dont say anything blatantly vulgar, creepy or offensive, there is a very small chance she will react poorly towards you. Now you might not always number close, and some might give a polite 10 second conversation and then leave, but eithier way no harm has been done. Even if they ignore you, so what? No one else important will notice. Your family and friends wont hear about it. No ones going to think youre a loser or a creep. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE.
Its true. You are HIGHLY unlikley to get a bad reaction from a cold approach. And i can prove it. I will give you a basic numbering system for reactions you recieve from cold approaches. Then, I want you to go make as many as possible this week and for every one i want you to write down a number that corresponds with the reaction you recieved.
1-NUMBER CLOSE
2-CONVERSATION LASTING MORE THAN 5 MINUTES
3-POLITE 30 SECOND CONVERSATION
4-IGNORED
5-INSULTED AND/OR VERBALLY BERATED IN FRONT OF EVERYONE
Its that simple. I would bet money if you try this, you will see lots of 1s 2s and 3s and hardly and 4s and NO 5s. Keep a record, post your results.
What i WILL tell you is this: Bad reactions to a cold approach are rare.
If you approach a woman in public, assuming you dont say anything blatantly vulgar, creepy or offensive, there is a very small chance she will react poorly towards you. Now you might not always number close, and some might give a polite 10 second conversation and then leave, but eithier way no harm has been done. Even if they ignore you, so what? No one else important will notice. Your family and friends wont hear about it. No ones going to think youre a loser or a creep. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE.
Its true. You are HIGHLY unlikley to get a bad reaction from a cold approach. And i can prove it. I will give you a basic numbering system for reactions you recieve from cold approaches. Then, I want you to go make as many as possible this week and for every one i want you to write down a number that corresponds with the reaction you recieved.
1-NUMBER CLOSE
2-CONVERSATION LASTING MORE THAN 5 MINUTES
3-POLITE 30 SECOND CONVERSATION
4-IGNORED
5-INSULTED AND/OR VERBALLY BERATED IN FRONT OF EVERYONE
Its that simple. I would bet money if you try this, you will see lots of 1s 2s and 3s and hardly and 4s and NO 5s. Keep a record, post your results.
