Skyline
Master Don Juan
I love the holidays. From Halloween to valentines day, it's just romance, even Halloween. This year I've figured out that I really enjoy being all romantic, which consists of being smooth and just being overall sexual.
But there has been a few downs lately. At heart, I'm a lonely guy. I was really down a few days ago but after crying like a hoe I thought to myself:
"Why am I being such a little b*tch? I'm acting no different than that guy who feels bad because he has zero game and or no confidence."
The second part really hit me, mainly my ego. We all know that guy who is depressed because he can't get girls. I do not identify as that guy, but I was at those moments. Why was I acting like a little hoe at those moments?
Because I wasn't having fun anymore. I was playing the game in an attempt to WIN, I took it from fun to serious the second things got negative. Just like that loser guy who doesn't get girls. They play to win, not for the ride. I personally really enjoy the chase. I love making smooth moves, it makes me feel confident and masculine.
Obviously standard DJ rules apply, don't be too needy, no means no, actions speak louder, don't be too persistent, and don't be too straightforward. Just have fun flirting and tryna get laid. One of the girls I got boneritis for is in one of my classes and she's denied me twice to go out already. At first, I thought whatever and persisted with the flirting and all of that. I thought I had her in the bag by the second time until she rejected my offer.
That's when it went from fun to serious, where I began to play to win rather than enjoying the ride. I really enjoy flirting with her and word is spreading around my class that were either together or should be, I have high social status in that class, but I know she's with someone else. The thing is she hasn't told me that she is with someone or is talking to someone, she doesn't do anything to prevent escalation and she still laughs and smiles whenever I talk to her.
Why hasn't she told me this? Well because in front of her, I'm confident and fun. Behind closed doors, I destroyed myself because I was taking it seriously behind that door. I'm able to maintain my frame when she sees it. She's rejected me twice and I still have the balls to still flirt with her simply because she isn't giving me a real reason not to. I'm doing all of the initiating but I'm enjoying the chase and she senses that.
Don't get me wrong, you should still talk to multiple girls at once. Flirt with all of them! I sit around 4 females and I have fun and lightly flirt with all of them. And guess what? They talk to me outside of class and actually want to chill with me. Crazy right? That alone is a lot of social status.
This post is more for me but it can help you guys too. I took chasing her too seriously and began crying like a little hoe about how lonely I was, SS didn't raise me to cry like a little b*tch. My frame with her is still strong as steel. Subtle flirting is making me feel good and she isn't stopping me. I have a date with another girl next week and I'm gonna have fun with her, not act all serious.
Just have fun with it.
But there has been a few downs lately. At heart, I'm a lonely guy. I was really down a few days ago but after crying like a hoe I thought to myself:
"Why am I being such a little b*tch? I'm acting no different than that guy who feels bad because he has zero game and or no confidence."
The second part really hit me, mainly my ego. We all know that guy who is depressed because he can't get girls. I do not identify as that guy, but I was at those moments. Why was I acting like a little hoe at those moments?
Because I wasn't having fun anymore. I was playing the game in an attempt to WIN, I took it from fun to serious the second things got negative. Just like that loser guy who doesn't get girls. They play to win, not for the ride. I personally really enjoy the chase. I love making smooth moves, it makes me feel confident and masculine.
Obviously standard DJ rules apply, don't be too needy, no means no, actions speak louder, don't be too persistent, and don't be too straightforward. Just have fun flirting and tryna get laid. One of the girls I got boneritis for is in one of my classes and she's denied me twice to go out already. At first, I thought whatever and persisted with the flirting and all of that. I thought I had her in the bag by the second time until she rejected my offer.
That's when it went from fun to serious, where I began to play to win rather than enjoying the ride. I really enjoy flirting with her and word is spreading around my class that were either together or should be, I have high social status in that class, but I know she's with someone else. The thing is she hasn't told me that she is with someone or is talking to someone, she doesn't do anything to prevent escalation and she still laughs and smiles whenever I talk to her.
Why hasn't she told me this? Well because in front of her, I'm confident and fun. Behind closed doors, I destroyed myself because I was taking it seriously behind that door. I'm able to maintain my frame when she sees it. She's rejected me twice and I still have the balls to still flirt with her simply because she isn't giving me a real reason not to. I'm doing all of the initiating but I'm enjoying the chase and she senses that.
Don't get me wrong, you should still talk to multiple girls at once. Flirt with all of them! I sit around 4 females and I have fun and lightly flirt with all of them. And guess what? They talk to me outside of class and actually want to chill with me. Crazy right? That alone is a lot of social status.
This post is more for me but it can help you guys too. I took chasing her too seriously and began crying like a little hoe about how lonely I was, SS didn't raise me to cry like a little b*tch. My frame with her is still strong as steel. Subtle flirting is making me feel good and she isn't stopping me. I have a date with another girl next week and I'm gonna have fun with her, not act all serious.
Just have fun with it.
