Relationships with women; worth it?

[itishe]

Are relationships worth it?

I commonly go to parties, see my best friend's girlfriends there. They'll be talking with other guys, which is fine. Except they'll be laying on some secluded bed in the far room of the house, cuddling, sometimes even making out. Not with their boyfriends of course, but some guy at the party. Commonly a good friend of the boyfriend.

Where is the honor and respect now days? I'm starting to think it's not even worth it to be in a relationship (I've been in one for over a year now) and maybe it's time to just go start nailing some sluts and not dating them.

Your thoughts?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Being in a relationship with the right woman is definitely worth it.

 

[itishe]

I understand the whole "slut"/"AW"/"non-slut" GF debacle, but alot of these girls were the ones who've only had sex with one guy, dress non-slutty, are in National Honor Society. These arn't the girls who I expected to do this ****! How can I trust any woman period after seeing this stuff repeatedly?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I understand the whole "slut"/"AW"/"non-slut" GF debacle, but alot of these girls were the ones who've only had sex with one guy, dress non-slutty, are in National Honor Society. These arn't the girls who I expected to do this ****! How can I trust any woman period after seeing this stuff repeatedly?

A suggest adjusting your qualification criteria.

 

[itishe]

How does a man know his woman is "right"? I cannot watch her night and day, nor do I care to. I have better things to do with my time.

But what am I supposed to believe? That my friends have girlfriends that do it, but mine doesn't?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

How does a man know his woman is "right"? I cannot watch her night and day, nor do I care to. I have better things to do with my time..

No you shouldn't have to. But if worried that you'll need to with a particular woman do you really need to ask yourself if she's the right one? Now, if you feel that you need to ask yourself if you feel worried about that type of thing with all women, perhaps there's a need to look at yourself.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Basically, he means get in a relationship with an ugly girl, she'll stay faithful.

 

[DonJuan11]

Where is the honor and respect now days? I'm starting to think it's not even worth it to be in a relationship (I've been in one for over a year now) and maybe it's time to just go start nailing some sluts and not dating them.

Your partner could be thinking the same thing as you. She could think its not worth it either.

 

[DonGorgon]

Are relationships worth it?

I commonly go to parties, see my best friend's girlfriends there. They'll be talking with other guys, which is fine. Except they'll be laying on some secluded bed in the far room of the house, cuddling, sometimes even making out. Not with their boyfriends of course, but some guy at the party. Commonly a good friend of the boyfriend.

Where is the honor and respect now days? I'm starting to think it's not even worth it to be in a relationship (I've been in one for over a year now) and maybe it's time to just go start nailing some sluts and not dating them.

Your thoughts?

Relationships (being her boyfriend or husband) no longer guaranty commitment and dedication from your woman, all it means is you are more financially and emotionally responsible for her than all other dudes she is F'ing..