darksprezzatura
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Would you be in a relationship with someone you love knowing there’s a 99% chance it has an expiration date due to family/life goal issues?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Relationship with expiration date dilemma
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I have no idea how it applies to LTR’s, but it’s common business knowledge to cut your losses early once the down trend or negative outcome is recognized …
CBear
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Can't say no or that I haven't done it before but in a situation like that, it's better to end it sooner than later as a lot of time will end up being wasted and resentment will build up. It's easier said than done.
The Duke
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Depending on where I was at in life, yes I'd do it. It's not like relationships exactly last forever these days.
Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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what’s the issue?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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I have, she was a plate that I didn't want to lose. I led her on to think she was my GF for 6 months. I felt horrible, and I had to end it. And I ended it via text. I was an immature asshoIe. She got married last year so I felt a tad bit better and really happy for her.
I wouldn't recommend going into a relationship with the premise of KNOWING your life/family goals are not aligned.
I wouldn't recommend going into a relationship with the premise of KNOWING your life/family goals are not aligned.