"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I dated this girl from work for about 2 months and she wanted to be exclusive but I didn't so she ended it. What are some tips you guys have?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What tips are you looking for? Getting back together with her? Don't bother, you want different things. She wants a relationship and you want random sex. Not worth the effort in my opinion. Move on, find another girl.
 
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oh that's not what I meant. I really like my job but we are in the same department and she is a senior analyst. We see each other almost everyday and will have to work together on projects. What should I do to keep the peace, she was pretty heated last time I talked to her.
 
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That's why you don't date women at work. Lesson learned. Just be polite and speak when spoken to. leave any heavy conversations alone. Keep your head down till it blows over. Dumbass.
 
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Be pro-active. File a sexual harassment complaint with HR, and get her fired before the situation can escalate. Plus, never date people from work.

Unless they are subordinates that you have the power to fire. Or are superiors that have the power to promote you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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