"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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alright guys heres the deal i am currently in a little realationship with agirl whos 16 and im 17... i know typically that girls love the ******* type and dont want guys being too nice and they want to chase.. but so far i have actually been nice to her and havent really showed the ******* type by callin her and all that.. she lives like 50 miles away from me so i dont see her that much but i do like her alot what advice can i get to keep her to missa nd want me more because im scared if i just stop calling her now and then that she will give up kinda confused
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I thought we had a high school forum to keep crap like this out of the discussion forum?
 
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yeah your better off in the highschool forum..

we don't know how 16 and 17 year olds think. that's a completely different ball game.

ill try and help you but i dont know too much about that age group nemore. if i was you, i would find a girl who lives closer. long distance relationships are horrible. i dated a long distance girl for 2 years (she would go home when college wasnt in session) and it was horrible.

if you like this girl then you should call her alittle more than you usually do if she is far away. if you know she likes phone calls, then call her. i try not to get caught up in that calling crap but do what you have to do.
 
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