"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sexy_kuta

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how do you guys react to them?
do you show any emotions at all?
what would you do if you saw the same girl at a different time?

how do you view rejections as?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I React Indifferently And I Do Not Give A Flying Fukk.
Her Loss Boo-hoo!!!!!!!
Almost Every Chick You'll Game Is Useless And Braindead For Life.
If I See Her At A Different Time I Grab My Sack And Show Her That My Life Is Quite Fine...thanks For Playing. Not To Mention I Hit On More B!tches Than You Can Shake A Stick At When In Front Of Her.
 
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