Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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jiza101

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Man, this sucks..
I was at gym with my mate who is a kind of natural and he was complaining about how a girl he was after didn't trust him. So i give him some ideas and then basically tell him a lot about confidence etc. Anyway ends up that he then goes and tells all his other mates who im kind of friends with that im a player and all this other bs. So now i have cvnts pming me saying sh!t like "omg man a girl doesnt trust me what do i do" and all this bs. Have you guys ever shared knowledge and have it backfire on you... Hes regretting telling them now, and says hes sorry. Not that i really give a fvck.
BTW with all these other mates asking me questions, they arnt being serious, like they are joking to make fun of me.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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:down: That's why babies learn how to walk before they learn how to talk. Same thing in this situation. It sucks for you, I guess, but what you need to do is to grow another pair, and start hitting on and talking to girls, so you will have the results to be able to back-up your "player" advice...
 

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Yea why do you care so much about what they think of you? Just joke aroudn with them and play with the joke and then people won't take them seriously about you being a player.

fuzzx....shut up.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Just being curious, did you just give him some options or did you give him some examples of what you've done (bragging)?
 

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it's cause you're talking the talk, but you're not walking the walk. if you were an actual player, they'd listen to your advice and not make fun of you. instead, they see you as a guy that's single, but is talking about the game like he's some dude that has a new girl every week.

don't help other people develop their game if your own game is incomplete & lead by example, not with words.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
it's cause you're talking the talk, but you're not walking the walk. if you were an actual player, they'd listen to your advice and not make fun of you. instead, they see you as a guy that's single, but is talking about the game like he's some dude that has a new girl every week.

don't help other people develop their game if your own game is incomplete & lead by example, not with words.
True, i guess its about time i put this sh!t to use, previously its just been interesting for me to study, like you would study any other subject :woo:
 
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