"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Reflection----> any advice appreciated

someperson1987

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Hi (feel free to comment)
Well, in four months or so high school is pretty much forever. I still not sure whether thats good or bad.

In Four Year

Looking back, I wish i had more guts. I found this web site two years ago but i hardly learnt anything.

In high school i didn't really have much confidence. I read alot of articles in my spare time but really didn't extract anything.
I'm not even sure why my confidence was so low. I was top of the class and quite good looking (for some reason thats rare usually at my school ). Maybe i was just too shy so i didn't really make alot friends.

Each time I met a girl i thought the exact same thing "how could a girl that pretty actually fall for me." I always thought that i didn't have enough status, i didn't have enough friend and that she might be ashamed if anyone saw us together. So hence i never really made any move. As a result, we became distanted (sigh same thing for more than a million times) and then became strangers.

Moral

I guess the moral of the story is: never ask the question i did. I thought i didn't have enough friends and hence i wasn't worthy of any girl (how dumb :S).

For those still in high school for a while, i'll tell you to stop thinking and just do it. Over analyzing kills you.I wish i had a time machine (but i dont). Stop asking does she like you or "would a girl like that actually find you attractive." Sigh i wish i never asked that question.

What Now

But hey you know, I'll never do that again and you just live and learn. I still got four years of school ahead at least so its not too late.

Sorry for big long speech, i just had to vent that out. But hey any comments is good.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah

I guess thats why the stupidest people always have a girl around them... they dont think about it at all.
 

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nice advice
 

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you will begin to get more confidence by meeting people personally. this site helps give you knowledge about women before you approach someone.

be natural about it, be calm and relax. the world isn't hard if you take it easy. the world speaking the people.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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