"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reffering to my last thread...

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Right below this one... me and ole girl broke up, I thought I had a free-ride her being a stripper (9.0) and all, sat there content. My biggest mistake.

I need a bounceback scheme and quick, I know its work all over again getting back to playing multiple girls and all... I lost my heart, so to speak, got lazy because of what I had, rested on laurels, I should've learned that lesson way before this incident. Any ideas? I do feel somewhat stuck.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ima str8 up pimp said:
Right below this one... me and ole girl broke up, I thought I had a free-ride her being a stripper (9.0) and all, sat there content. My biggest mistake.

I need a bounceback scheme and quick, I know its work all over again getting back to playing multiple girls and all... I lost my heart, so to speak, got lazy because of what I had, rested on laurels, I should've learned that lesson way before this incident. Any ideas? I do feel somewhat stuck.

How can you tell us your stuck when you brag about getting women all the time?

I dougbt anyone with useful info will want to post even, theres no point when you totally lie about your situation/abilities/circumstance and pretend your a pimp lol.

And why would you want to date a stripper even? :S

Isnt it obvious to you that a stripper will have a ton of men hitting on her at work with alot more to offer than a man that leaches off her? You shouldnt have even let her work as one, she's used it as a springboard to drop you.
 
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lying??? you're saying I'm lying??

dude WHAT THE **** IS WRONG WITH YOU?

ARE YOU ****ING RETARTDED? I WOULD SERIOUSLY MEAN MUG THE **** OUT OF YOU SO YOU WOULDN'T BE TALKING OUT OF YOUR ASS IN PERSON OH MY GOD DUDE, IF I HATE ONE THING ITS MOTHER ****ING ASSUMING AND ESPECIALLY IN YOUR CASE WHERE ITS VERY VERY MUCH PUBLIC...

I HAVE HOOKED UP WITH 28 GIRLS GUY... I HAVE A LIST... I ACTUALLY THOUGHT 27 UNTIL LAST NIGHT AT ABOUT 630 WHEN I REALIZED I MISSED ONE... oh/// **** yeah and i just turned 19 forgot to mention *****.

DUDE?... I MEAN... DUDE....????

next....
 
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NO, fagget, no, do you not understand that you were incorrect about saying I did not do what I in very much fact did?...

what rubbish queer? im in the states this is the way people do, i swear to God dude... keep my name out of your mouth. discipline yourself, you can't hang... does the fact hurt your feelings? good... those are my 5 foot 8 inch intentions?

(btw why the flying **** do you care im 5'8?)
 

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ima str8 up pimp said:
I WOULD SERIOUSLY MEAN MUG THE **** OUT OF YOU SO YOU WOULDN'T BE TALKING OUT OF YOUR ASS IN PERSON
Oooooo. Dirty looks, those tend to make people bleed.

:cheer:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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But seriously, why did you blow up? That can't be healthy man.
 
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sebastionay said:
How can you tell us your stuck when you brag about getting women all the time?

I dougbt anyone with useful info will want to post even, theres no point when you totally lie about your situation/abilities/circumstance and pretend your a pimp lol.

And why would you want to date a stripper even? :S

Isnt it obvious to you that a stripper will have a ton of men hitting on her at work with alot more to offer than a man that leaches off her? You shouldnt have even let her work as one, she's used it as a springboard to drop you.
the stripper... i was never truly attached... and i know others constantly hit on her... this made it hella more fun for me to have her... the point is that she was attached.... i miss that, dont know exactly how to cope im not perfect ****.
 

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I think the word attached isn't good from the male perspective in these situations, because it assumes a prolonged, sever-able connection. I think it should be viewed as an emotional/time investment, sure you may have not been invested heavily, but can you say you weren't at all? I probably couldn't, esp for a Hb9 Stripper.

Either way man, when one leaves, that means you'll meet the next one tomorrow.
 
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