"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Red Flag?

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You meet a girl, you set a date. It was fantastic. She's quality, you instantly notice great chemistry, she's comes across as someone with great purpose in life. She knows what she wants and she's working hard to get there. You admire her, you think this girl is quality and worth exploring more.

After dinner, you invite her to your place, you bang her wild and she goes home feeling ecstatic!!
Would you then sit back and think, red flag?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Onion said:
You meet a girl, you set a date. It was fantastic. She's quality, you instantly notice great chemistry, she's comes across as someone with great purpose in life. She knows what she wants and she's working hard to get there. You admire her, you think this girl is quality and worth exploring more.

After dinner, you invite her to your place, you bang her wild and she goes home feeling ecstatic!!
Would you then sit back and think, red flag?
Maybe you think red flag because it seems to good to be true... Don't allow yourself to get attached to women who seem to good to be true. Unless you gamed her really hard into good behavior. If she is doing it on her own, and very quickly dont you think she has done it for other guys before, so why would she be single if she is so great?
 

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OFFICIAL STATEMENT from Christopher Hungryu Zement Smifson Jugatti III on abortion


Hi people of the world. my official statement on abortion. abortion should be legal in the first trimester. Roe versus Wade got that one perfectly right. perfection. abortion should be legal in the second trimester except for sex selection abortions. sex selection abortions should be illegal. abortion should be illegal in the third trimester except for the health or life of the mother. this includes the partial birth abortion. no convenience abortions in the third trimester. there must be an official medical doctors order on official stationery before a partial birth abortion my be performed.




laws on protesters. due to the tension surrounding the abortion issue, all protesters must remain at least ten feet from any part of any building which allows abortions and there must be a barrier free path to the door. violators should be sent to jail for a minimum of twelve hours and a maximum of thirty days.


WENDY Z IS GAY
MICHAEL R IS A HOMOSEXUAL


In the clinic. the doctors should get right to the operation. They should ask her one time are you sure. if she says yes she is sure, the operation must commence. i'm gay. the remains should be used for medical research. the doctors should have barrier free entrance and be free of harassment. sting operations should not be permitted.


sincerely,


Christopher Hungryu Zement Smifson Jugatti III
the world's leading abortion advocate
 
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