"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Recovering AFC's going clubbing - any advice

Borgia

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Hello All

My friend and I are going clubbing tonight as we did last night - we have read a great deal of the bible and other posts and want to put words into action. Last night we went out to this club, we tried to exercise what we had learnt with little success - basically we each asked two girls to dance and each got rejected (we didn;t really keep to the 3 second rule)which really didn't bother either of us - in fact we were happy to have done it - but - obviously at some points we both want the rejections to stop.

There is no reason for them, we both are decent looking, sociable lads and if anybody has any advice it would be greatfully recieved

We will come back and tell you all how it went tommorrow morning
 

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bp1974

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How about making it a bit more fun. Here's a game that can work well as it puts the emphasis on you two having fun, but still gets you out there. Each of you put a tenner (or whatever amount would sting a bit) in the pot. First one to get ten dance rejections takes the pot. Chances are, after the first few rejections you'll have trouble getting more, as the girls will start saying yes.

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Jay26

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It's a numbers game at the end of the day, so keep plugin away.
 
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