"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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recommendations on these books?

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anyone read these books? Can they tell me how good they are?

There are reviews on these from Amazon, but a lot of them seem to be AFCs or women, and I don't trust their reviews.

Body Language Secrets: A guide during courtship and dating
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/03...5255-4191858?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance&n=283155

The Pimp Game: Instructional Guide
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/cu...omer-reviews.sort_by=-SubmissionDate&n=283155

Get anyone to do anything:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/03...5255-4191858?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance&n=283155

I'm quite interested in the above (is it a more powerful , less PC, version of Dale Carngies' how to win friends and influence people?)

The art of macking
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/094839059X/ref=pd_sxp_elt_l1/103-6155255-4191858?n=283155

Nice guys and players:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/cu...omer-reviews.sort_by=-SubmissionDate&n=283155

Seduce me!
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/09...5255-4191858?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance&n=283155
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd like to hear any reviews on these books as well.
Any1 read any of these?
 
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I read Lieberman's Get Anyone To Do Anything. I did learn some things about human nature, but nothing really blew me away. But than again, I read a few books about psychology of human mind before, so for someone who didn't, this could be insightful.
 
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