"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
recommendations for cheap nice smelling colognes?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
a few good ones: -Cool Water by Davidoff
- Aqua di Gio by Giorgio Armani (however it s been way overused. smells really great but i stopped using it about 6 years ago because too many guys use it)
- L' Eau D' Issey by Issey Miyake (similar to aqua di Gio but a lot more rare)
- CerrutiSi by Cerruti (great smell, similar to the 2 above but I haven't run into anybody using it yet in the US)
- Ultraviolet by Paco Rabanne
