Recognizing limerence

[jhonny9546]

There is a concept called limerence, which is a psychological state characterized by intense desire and attachment to another person, along with imagining life with that person, even if we don't really know them. According to the theory, some people are unable to love themselves or others in a healthy way. If they are in long-term relationships, it is often because their limerence is fueled by a very chaotic relationship. In fact, once these individuals have "obtained" the person they fantasized about so much, if the relationship is healthy, they may become bored and end up breaking up. This occurs precisely because those who tend toward limerence struggle to love themselves in a healthy way; therefore, when someone loves them, they feel uncomfortable and choose to end the relationship.

Now, we all know that women can show obvious signs of interest when they are attracted to a man, or in rarer cases, they may even take the initiative themselves. So, how can a man understand whether this woman is attracted to him due to limerence or if she is genuinely interested?
It would be helpful to discuss the existence of red flags that could be connected to the concept of limerence. This could assist in filtering out women who have an unhealthy attachment and may also help us understand why we are drawn to this type of woman in the first place.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

There once was a man from Kent.
Who had a d*ck so long that it bent.
To save him some trouble
he put it in double
and instead of coming
he went