"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Rebirth of Amoka: A journey of self betterment

amoka

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2006
Messages
1,931
Reaction score
62
About two years ago, a young woman came to my apartment. We watched movies together but somehow things go a bit out of hand and we began kissing each other. Filled with excitement and inexperience, I began taking her cloth off... then: "are you trying to seduce me?". Being a chump, I responded " em, no. It is up to you whatever you want to do, it is fine with me." Few minutes later, she stood up and left the room, probably with wet panties. Surprised, embarrassed, and disappointed at the same time, I was determined to find out the exact course/reason why she suddenly switched from fun mode to leaving me dry and lonely. My search lead me to sosuave.

At sosuave, I read material after material yet no result. Then I decided to put on a journal to see my progress. This gathered speed. Had absolutely no trouble initiating conversation with girls. Nearly zero efforts in getting numbers. But when I was just about to take-off and build on that, I launched a girlfriend thinking things are cool. We enjoyed each others company for about 16 months: she cooked, sexed me whenever I want. Then she started discussing marriage. (I don't think I'm ready for that yet.). As a result, we separated, for her good and mine.

After the separation, all those skills went down the drain. Now it is time to go back. Get me back on my feet. All interactions with women will be posted here.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

amoka

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2006
Messages
1,931
Reaction score
62
The One Night Stand

Alright fellas: my one night stand in a while... here is the story.
It is about 7:30pm and Amoka decided to hit Hiner Brothers for some reading and coffee. At about 10 o'clock amoka decided he had have enough and decided to put his laptop and books in the car and go home. After putting the things in the car, a thought came to him: "Why not get something to eat at Quidobbas before leaving?" So Amoka decided to walk to the Quidobbas. On the way, he spotted and HB. Let's call her HB7 going towards the restaurant. Let me also mention that there was a band playing outside the restaurant.
Amoka: "Going to the music festival?"
HB7: "Yeah.... are you?"
Amoka: "Nah... going to get something to eat at Quidobbas. Are you a band fan? Do you play any instrument?"
HB7: " I enjoy live music every now and then. Unfortunately, I do not play any instrument".
Amoka: "That's bad 'cus I was expecting to learn from ya playing of instrument"
HB7: " Well that's too bad then...." I must admit, this girl is the most opened minded girl I've encountered thus far.
Amoka: " Hey, HB7, wanna join me for some food at Q?"
HB7: "I have already ate but I can join you for some beer. Me and my friends ate earlier today but I can join you for some beer. I live close by so when I get drunk I don't have to drive home"
So we went to the Q and she ordered her beer and I ordered my food. Tell ya, best date ever. No First Date Sh!te.

Anyway, after eating I suggested we go to a bar so I can get something to drink because I do not like drinking beer. She complied. We went to the bar and I got my three shots of Vodka and she got her Bud light. The overall charge was about 17.50 and a tip of 2.50. Yes, I took the tab.

The IOI from this girl was becoming obvious.

Amoka: "HB7, do you enjoy traveling?"
HB7: "Yeah, I do only to places in the USA though."
Amoka: "No. Way, you've never even being to canada?"
HB7: "Yeah. I know that's bad. But I had a friend, while in college, from canada. Have you been to Canada?"
Amoka: "Yeah. Being to the Biggest mall in the world. The West Edmonton Mall"
HB7: "The biggest mall in the world in Canada? I thought it was a mall in the USA. I'll have to check online when I get home tonight."
Amoka: "That's fine. Hey, what is your dog's name?........ you just look like a kind of person with a household pet thats all" Change of subject, I know.
HB7: "I don't have a dog but I have a cat. And her name is Claw. How do you know I have a pet?"
Amoka: " I can see it right in your eyes and your behavior."

Alright, after drinking I we decided to walk back to my car then...
Amoka: "I can't believe you did not know the biggest mall in the world is in Canada."
HB7: "Yeah. I'm surprised myself."
Amoka: "In fact, we should go check it right NOW. Do you have internet access at home?"
HB7: "Yeah... I get wireless signal from my neighbors" I could tease her of stealing but my aim is get to her home.

Upon entering her home, I noticed books on her shelves and I picked one up and was looking through while she went to the bathroom. When she returned, she came to check the book I was reading. Then, I pulled her closer to me, kissed her a bit on the lips. Then pulled away. Then, she came closer to give kiss. I kissed and pulled away. Then somehow, things escalated from there.... fvcked and was sweeting like hell. Then, I suggested we go take a cold shower.... after which we went back fvcking till like 2am and left then.

Frankly, I have not done a one night stand at a woman's house before. All my previous ONS were the woman at my place. So, I don't know if leaving at 2am was a good idea or not. She wanted me to stay but for some personal reasons, I had to leave.

The overall encounter is less than 80mins before fvcking
 

Desert Fox

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 16, 2008
Messages
786
Reaction score
22
So what is the biggest mall? I want to know bro, don't leave me hanging this story is just getting hot and juicy and bam you leave me with blue balls. I woulda came all over my computer if you'd just told me what the biggest mall was, maybe next time.

Great job btw with that lay...it's all too easy if you're just being natural.
 

Zaraza

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 6, 2005
Messages
282
Reaction score
2
Location
Oregon, USA
hahaha desert fox, your reply is hilarious.


amoka thats great!
 
Top