"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Reasons why men should not have a "girlfriend"

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The Logical Player said:
dont be real with them, its not like they are real to themselves

jesus christ, cant you guys just have fun with these chicks and not commit to just ONE girl who you will end up breaking up with in the future anyway

where is the logic in having just 1 girl?
Are your parents still married? Do they love each other? Did/do they love you?

It's all well and good saying everyone should be an eternal bachelor and not settle down so they can get lots of pu*sy. But you make it sound like all women are these evil creatures who are only in it to use you, break up with you in the hard times. Divorce rates are high, people break up all the time. There are plenty of women who are just like you speak of. But there are plenty of people also who do find love, do get married, settle down and start a family. Often these are the people who have the most healthy mindset towards controlling their lives, and find someone else as equally mature as them.

Many might not be interested or indifferent to settling down and starting a family. There's more to life than just fvcking women.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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humans have many wants and needs.. sex is a powerfull want that is borderingvoh a need for many. but we also want/need emotional bonds that do not come with one night stands with random hos.. wich is why many people a main person and a few others of less importance .

especially as we age and sex becoms less important and we are not as socially cool and loneliness becomes more real we tend to value more and more those meaningfull emotional bonds...

i am 32 and have had many hos and 10 girlfriends... and i have a saying i made up grom my experience... it takes 10 hos to equal 1 good woman..
 
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