Reasons for girl doing this...

[Adam3335]

Hi everybody! I'm dating this girl for about 3-4 months. From initial attraction she went little cold, don't call me, but when I call with her or speak to her she seems ok. Last time she wasn't answered my call. I usually calling or texting only every now and then but it seems like it is backfiring on me. I know there are not details about our "relationship" but I would greatly appreciate if you could read some of my other posts for them.

Is it possible that girl step by step lost attraction because of not calling and contacting her too much? Or she is taking me for granted and isn't interested beaouse of it. And probably I'm overanalyzing all this too much.
Now we only seeing each other at the weekends and for me it is too little. You'll say don't care more than women but what I'm supposed to do? I don't want to asking her out everytime and calling her everytime if there is no reciprocity but I don't know how exactly deal with this things.

Thank you very much for your opinions and advices.

 

[imaginemypotential]

maybe your behavior subconsciously changed? and you don't realize it,think about how you act now vs when first met her 3 months ago, has anything changed since?

 

[Adam3335]

No, I didn't change my behavior. Maybe it is only her silly games. I don't know.

 

[playerone]

It sounds like she is merely losing interest in you. She's just not that into you anymore. You failed to keep her attracted, if you did from the start. Never, ever, think that she's losing interest because you're not calling/texting her enough.

I would say that is rarely the case. It's just what you do to attract her when you do contact her. Remember, we seek what that retreats from us.

 

[Adam3335]

I have been also out with some of my female friends and later one of them, who knows my "girlfriend" too tells me that she called her and asking her if she was with me and I was "angry" or "sad" or something.
Because she wasn't contacted me for some days. - It is obviously some mind game, isn't it?



So I didn't contact her and she sent me sms two days ago: What's up you "lost man" (I don't know how to say that in english), are you alive? So I call her later and have light conversation, making fun of her... She was asking me what I'm going to do tonight and I was tell her that I'm going out with friends bla bla. She tells me that she will call me at evening ( I respoded to that by something like "If you want" and made fun of her) and she calls me about 1:30 AM that night when a I was out, asking me where I am and telling me that she went to see her friend and got 2 roses. I was make fun of her if he has nice ass etc. It is obvious that she was trying to make me jealous or something like that and it really entertained me. She also wroted sms to me two days after this, that she saw some advertising about event when we were on the first date and if it something reminding to me...



We weren't be together for about 10 days and when she has free house on the weekend, she doesn't invited me to be together. I don't want to be always in position to taking her out because I don't see any reciprocity.


So what are you thinking? What is all this? Is this all bulls**t and I should move on and forget about her or call her and set up meeting? I don't know if she is attracted, or only playing some s**t to see if I will go to some of AFC way telling her how much I love her or some other BS? THANK YOU for all your opinions and advices and sorry for my english grammar.

 

[imaginemypotential]

next her

 

[mtlwlu]

Im going through a similar scenario, which is why Im thankful Im spinning more than 3 plates lol. When this happens, dont let it bother you move onto the next girl.