jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Most of the time, when you see a couple announcing their wedding, it's because they've given up and said, "After all this time, let's stay together. We're doing it for the kids, or for financial stability, or for other reasons." Not all, but the most. Some actually use marriage as a "definition" that from now on we'll cheat on each other, but let's use this union and do it for the kids, or for the reasons mentioned above. Simply after hearing the stories of several married couples, the tradition is far too common. And I haven't counted those suspected of cheating; the ones I'm mentioning are definite cases.
How people manage to live with this inside them... It's as if they treat marriage like a "job" because there are obligations (kids, work/home/finances, family, etc.), and then they have secret lives where they have fun. One of the things all these cheating couples had in common was very recognizable: they didn't respect each other and didn't have healthy communication styles, they usually complain about their spouse in public, even if that was a joke. But they still togheter.
Those are the first and common signal from all.
Which is your experience on it??
How people manage to live with this inside them... It's as if they treat marriage like a "job" because there are obligations (kids, work/home/finances, family, etc.), and then they have secret lives where they have fun. One of the things all these cheating couples had in common was very recognizable: they didn't respect each other and didn't have healthy communication styles, they usually complain about their spouse in public, even if that was a joke. But they still togheter.
Those are the first and common signal from all.
Which is your experience on it??