Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
If you aren't willing to get out of your comfort zone and actually get good with women then don't even bother reading this thread your wasting your time. You may think this is too much work or to complicated but whatever its your life and if you really wanted to be able to get women that you want you would go through the whole process.
What I've started to notice being in this community is that you have the guys who are kind of testing the waters with this and get a bit of success and get lucky and then think they are good with women now. An then you have the guys who are actually out there getting women whenever.
Do you actually think your a DJ/PUA/Natural? Before you answer that answer this. If you seen a girl would you approach her automatically? What if she was with a guy, or a group of friends, or whatever she was working? If you actually did would you know how to get her attracted to you quickly and actually have a fun interaction?
WOULD YOU BE ABLE TO APPROACH A GIRL THAT YOU WANT ANYTIME AND ANYWHERE? If the answer is no then you are just testing out the waters.
How is it that some guys are in the community for years and years and don't get girls, still getting loads of flakes, still not even able to open 90% of the chicks he approach. An then you have some guys who are in for 3 months and experienced more success than the guy who's been trying for 3 years. How is it that some guys have 10 girls in rotation or 19! girls in rotation or 5MLTRs. Then you have others who are still trying to get kiss closes, and day2s, etc. It is because they went throught the process of actually LEARNING this.
If you want to get good you have to go out and approach constantly. An I don't mean approach one day and then next week do your second approach. I'm talking about approaching on the way to school. Approaching during school passing. Approaching during lunch. Approaching going home. Approaching whenever you have the chance. When you actually start approaching you start to have this whole mind shift where you realize this is fun and addicting.
The problem with most people is they are too serious and want a good intereaction with this total stranger. But the thing is don't worry about getting the fuvk her or anything just worry about having fun and having a fun time together.
-Don't chicken out and not approach a girl that you want to approach. Just get up walk and tap her. Once you've done that you are now forced to talk and say something.
-Don't use you looks, race, body type, money, etc as an excuse because these things don't matter because there is always someone with the same things who are fuvking girls. THESE STUFF DON"T MATTER AT ALL!!!!
Just get up and go out. If you see someone you like go up to her and talk to her and have fun. Just keep doing it over and over and eventually you will notice your getting better. This stuff doesn't take 1 month to get good at, and it really depends on how hard you work on getting this handled. If you approach over and over you will get it.
It really annoys me when guys come on here claiming there a DJ, PUA, alpha, natural, etc and posting about "you need looks" "My gf cheated on me" (You could easily go out that same night and find a new gf if you were good with women) "I'm indian so I can't get asian girls" "There is this one girl how should I play this" and the topics keeps on going and going and going.
Most of these posts shouldn't even be posted if you were actually out there approaching. If you knew why this stuff works on girls then why the hell are you saying that you need money and looks to get girls? If you know why this stuff works why the hell are you saying one race won't be able to get another? Why the hell are you worrying if you're gf is cheating on you if you can easily get a new girl because you know how to actually get women.
Just face the facts that you aren't good with women yet and you still have a way to go before you can actually be anywhere bored out your ass in a 99 to 1 boy to girl ratio club and get that one girl. An how do you actually get good, by constantly pushing through sets and constantly approaching set after set non stop. You're either having mass approaches (21 approaches a week mininum) or your trying to have solid sets (Sets that your in for a hour long)
- You should always be approaching any girl that you want to without any excuse
-You should be constantly trying to push through the set even if she is real *****y and tries to blow you out quickly
-You should constantly be practicing on getting the kiss and actually getting kino early
- You should constantly be going for the #close even if you don't think she'll give it to you (Can always use for phone game and may get a day2)
- Constantly trying to go on as many day2s as possible
You are doing this constantly and constantly and then after about a year or 2 it all becomes natural and you can easily do everything without hesitation. You will no longer be worrying about how sexy or well dress you are that day because you know you can still get the girl. You will never see a girl you want and be scared to approach her.
JUST DO IT. If you don't want to actually get good and actually get women then don't bother. Trust me you don't know how much fun it is to sarge. Think about an extreme sport or something you consider really fun that is how it feels to be in a set having fun with a group of women and then realizing that what your doing billions of others won't even think of doing.
SO go out there and have fun. Just approach!
What I've started to notice being in this community is that you have the guys who are kind of testing the waters with this and get a bit of success and get lucky and then think they are good with women now. An then you have the guys who are actually out there getting women whenever.
Do you actually think your a DJ/PUA/Natural? Before you answer that answer this. If you seen a girl would you approach her automatically? What if she was with a guy, or a group of friends, or whatever she was working? If you actually did would you know how to get her attracted to you quickly and actually have a fun interaction?
WOULD YOU BE ABLE TO APPROACH A GIRL THAT YOU WANT ANYTIME AND ANYWHERE? If the answer is no then you are just testing out the waters.
How is it that some guys are in the community for years and years and don't get girls, still getting loads of flakes, still not even able to open 90% of the chicks he approach. An then you have some guys who are in for 3 months and experienced more success than the guy who's been trying for 3 years. How is it that some guys have 10 girls in rotation or 19! girls in rotation or 5MLTRs. Then you have others who are still trying to get kiss closes, and day2s, etc. It is because they went throught the process of actually LEARNING this.
If you want to get good you have to go out and approach constantly. An I don't mean approach one day and then next week do your second approach. I'm talking about approaching on the way to school. Approaching during school passing. Approaching during lunch. Approaching going home. Approaching whenever you have the chance. When you actually start approaching you start to have this whole mind shift where you realize this is fun and addicting.
The problem with most people is they are too serious and want a good intereaction with this total stranger. But the thing is don't worry about getting the fuvk her or anything just worry about having fun and having a fun time together.
-Don't chicken out and not approach a girl that you want to approach. Just get up walk and tap her. Once you've done that you are now forced to talk and say something.
-Don't use you looks, race, body type, money, etc as an excuse because these things don't matter because there is always someone with the same things who are fuvking girls. THESE STUFF DON"T MATTER AT ALL!!!!
Just get up and go out. If you see someone you like go up to her and talk to her and have fun. Just keep doing it over and over and eventually you will notice your getting better. This stuff doesn't take 1 month to get good at, and it really depends on how hard you work on getting this handled. If you approach over and over you will get it.
It really annoys me when guys come on here claiming there a DJ, PUA, alpha, natural, etc and posting about "you need looks" "My gf cheated on me" (You could easily go out that same night and find a new gf if you were good with women) "I'm indian so I can't get asian girls" "There is this one girl how should I play this" and the topics keeps on going and going and going.
Most of these posts shouldn't even be posted if you were actually out there approaching. If you knew why this stuff works on girls then why the hell are you saying that you need money and looks to get girls? If you know why this stuff works why the hell are you saying one race won't be able to get another? Why the hell are you worrying if you're gf is cheating on you if you can easily get a new girl because you know how to actually get women.
Just face the facts that you aren't good with women yet and you still have a way to go before you can actually be anywhere bored out your ass in a 99 to 1 boy to girl ratio club and get that one girl. An how do you actually get good, by constantly pushing through sets and constantly approaching set after set non stop. You're either having mass approaches (21 approaches a week mininum) or your trying to have solid sets (Sets that your in for a hour long)
- You should always be approaching any girl that you want to without any excuse
-You should be constantly trying to push through the set even if she is real *****y and tries to blow you out quickly
-You should constantly be practicing on getting the kiss and actually getting kino early
- You should constantly be going for the #close even if you don't think she'll give it to you (Can always use for phone game and may get a day2)
- Constantly trying to go on as many day2s as possible
You are doing this constantly and constantly and then after about a year or 2 it all becomes natural and you can easily do everything without hesitation. You will no longer be worrying about how sexy or well dress you are that day because you know you can still get the girl. You will never see a girl you want and be scared to approach her.
JUST DO IT. If you don't want to actually get good and actually get women then don't bother. Trust me you don't know how much fun it is to sarge. Think about an extreme sport or something you consider really fun that is how it feels to be in a set having fun with a group of women and then realizing that what your doing billions of others won't even think of doing.
SO go out there and have fun. Just approach!