"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Real Estate Question

kbear0101

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Hello Gentlemen:


We all know the real estate market is taking a dump right now. I am sick of pissing 450 away on rent a month and now make enough money to purchase a house. Prices are dirt cheap what I am looking for and am planning to live in it approximately 2 years then sell it/rent it out. (I know renting out a place/ having tenants can be a real hassle but thats not what I want to discuss).


I am looking at 2 bedroom condos that are less than a mile from the university where I live (there will always be a need for living here). After HoA fees, mortgage insurance, ect... I am looking at about 750 a month not including utilities.

So I am just curious about your input, I am not sure if i should just hold off, be patient, and save some money for a while or or sack up and start making offers on a property I like.


Any suggestions/advice is greatly appreciated!

Happy New Years Fellas!

Kbear
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bible_Belt

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In what city are you looking to buy? A lot of Florida condo associations are having trouble right now with units falling into foreclosure and the residents of those units still living there for 1-2 years without paying any hoa dues. When enough people in an association stop paying dues, banks will refuse to write mortgages for any of the units, the common areas suffer disrepair, and the association has to increase fees on the remaining members who still pay. You want the condo association that you buy into to be financially healthy, because otherwise the value of your property will go down.
 
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kbear0101

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it would be in Arizona very close to ASU...have access to MLS listings which includes history/statistics and I will look into how many open units are in that complex and try to the best of my ability to determine if its financially healthy, thanks BB
 
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