So i have 2 threads going, the first is about this waitress that has been flirty with me for several weeks. Without question, gorgeous. I can add the links to those posts to. But basically I am passive (except this last Sat night for once :rockon: ).
Sunday I rolled into this bar with my buddy (hungover as %#%) I got a nice "hi" from her but she seemed to dial it back considerably, after watching the game for a couple hours, no play at all. Then we walked behind us, I saw her looking at me, as she passes, both she puts both hands on my back and she say "Oh I'm soo sorry" with a big smile. I just say "that's ok".
After this my buddy tells me "you are GOOD!", I ask why and he says she didn't bump into me at all she just "tagged me" intentionally. There was nobody else behind us, empty walk way/tables. So later I head to restroom shes at a table eating now, apparently done with work, had just got off the phone. She gave me the usual flirty look but with a look of obligation as if "whats the point" and it was very quick and she looked away. I thought of this forum and as someone said in my other post, it's no bit deal, so I honestly read, actually eager to just stop by her table and talk to her on the way back, however shes gone!
So next time I see her, I WILL talk to her and ask for her number without a doubt. I'm just curious if it's too late and if anyone else dragged a situation out like this? I'm hoping if I am direct enough the next time the timing will still be right.
I have had situations like this before, and done nothing and it just ends up being a girl who ignores me or an awkward hello at best from then on. There are too many girls around that I've made this situation with lol.
I feel dumb at this point because it really isn't a big deal, worse thing that could happen is she doesn't give me her number for whatever reason and its forgotten within minutes.
I watched my friend try approaching about 5-6 times over the weekend with eventual success and the ones that it didn't work with, nobody really cared. He just found the failures entertaining and laughed them off.
Sunday I rolled into this bar with my buddy (hungover as %#%) I got a nice "hi" from her but she seemed to dial it back considerably, after watching the game for a couple hours, no play at all. Then we walked behind us, I saw her looking at me, as she passes, both she puts both hands on my back and she say "Oh I'm soo sorry" with a big smile. I just say "that's ok".
After this my buddy tells me "you are GOOD!", I ask why and he says she didn't bump into me at all she just "tagged me" intentionally. There was nobody else behind us, empty walk way/tables. So later I head to restroom shes at a table eating now, apparently done with work, had just got off the phone. She gave me the usual flirty look but with a look of obligation as if "whats the point" and it was very quick and she looked away. I thought of this forum and as someone said in my other post, it's no bit deal, so I honestly read, actually eager to just stop by her table and talk to her on the way back, however shes gone!
So next time I see her, I WILL talk to her and ask for her number without a doubt. I'm just curious if it's too late and if anyone else dragged a situation out like this? I'm hoping if I am direct enough the next time the timing will still be right.
I have had situations like this before, and done nothing and it just ends up being a girl who ignores me or an awkward hello at best from then on. There are too many girls around that I've made this situation with lol.
I feel dumb at this point because it really isn't a big deal, worse thing that could happen is she doesn't give me her number for whatever reason and its forgotten within minutes.
I watched my friend try approaching about 5-6 times over the weekend with eventual success and the ones that it didn't work with, nobody really cared. He just found the failures entertaining and laughed them off.
