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Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 12, 2009
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
rate this conversation with this cutie for me, I found a ‘technique’ that seems to build rapport
- Thread starter Travel memoir21
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
the ratio of your texting is like 3:1. you come off as a bit needy or desperate.
Focus on quality not quantity.
these women seem bored, possibly amused at best. you seem eager, trying to make something from
nothing commenting on every point she makes.
if she's giving you financial advice instead of directions on where to stick your cawk, that's not a good sign.
you shouldn't ask her 'wut u do today.'
better off inquiring about her future plans because she may actually think you've got the balls to ask
her out on a date instead of friendzoning yourself.
Focus on quality not quantity.
these women seem bored, possibly amused at best. you seem eager, trying to make something from
nothing commenting on every point she makes.
if she's giving you financial advice instead of directions on where to stick your cawk, that's not a good sign.
you shouldn't ask her 'wut u do today.'
better off inquiring about her future plans because she may actually think you've got the balls to ask
her out on a date instead of friendzoning yourself.