pressure0354
Don Juan
ok so apparently my girlfriend said she was once date-raped. i guess i would like to hear some point of views on this. now i don't know a lot of detail because i figure its a really touchy subject to talk about. so i jsut have the general idea of only the few times shes mentioned it.
from what she tells me, she went on a date with this guy and went back and slept over his apart/house - whatever. maybe drinking a little bit maybe not. im not sure. but i guess when they were laying down she was facing away from him and not really giving him physical signs she was interested. but somehow he ended up having sex with her and her not wanting it.
now i know thats really vague and such. ive even seen her cry once before admiting that shes been raped.
but what really gets me is that she admited to never verbally saying "no". she never told him not to do it. and im pretty sure a girl has to give in phyically at some point to have sex, right? i dont think he phyically forced her (i.e. holding her down as she was struggling) and he didn't drug her. i think what happened was that she just gave in and didn't really want to but felt like she had to.
so im just really confused as to what to think. would you consider that rape? or is it she just is really disappointed in herself for letting herself do that, even though she didnt want to.
id like to talk more about this but don't want to seem an ******* in not taking her side 100%.... what you guys think?
from what she tells me, she went on a date with this guy and went back and slept over his apart/house - whatever. maybe drinking a little bit maybe not. im not sure. but i guess when they were laying down she was facing away from him and not really giving him physical signs she was interested. but somehow he ended up having sex with her and her not wanting it.
now i know thats really vague and such. ive even seen her cry once before admiting that shes been raped.
but what really gets me is that she admited to never verbally saying "no". she never told him not to do it. and im pretty sure a girl has to give in phyically at some point to have sex, right? i dont think he phyically forced her (i.e. holding her down as she was struggling) and he didn't drug her. i think what happened was that she just gave in and didn't really want to but felt like she had to.
so im just really confused as to what to think. would you consider that rape? or is it she just is really disappointed in herself for letting herself do that, even though she didnt want to.
id like to talk more about this but don't want to seem an ******* in not taking her side 100%.... what you guys think?