"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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tomcat2007

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Hey Guys:
Asked this random chic I met over msn to go to a movie, we never met in person and there is an age gap( me 26 she 20.-no biggie with me). We gel online and was hoping this experience could translate in person Anyways, I asked her and she "seems" interested, but she is taking her time coming to a decision. What gives? Is she or isnt she? We both have covered all the angles(except our bodies). Help answer this question and what the hell should I do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Makro2323

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What was her exact answer when you asked her to go to the cinema? And in what way did you ask her to go? Hopefully you didn't say something like 'will you go out with me?'.
 

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Don't go to the movie, you won't be able to talk to her, you might also be uncomfortable sitting with a stranger in a dark room with other strangers... Are people still e-dating...? Ah modern men!
 

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Yep, e-dating seems to be a big craze these days. I tend to agree with you Norisman about going to see a movie on the first date; it is next to impossible to talk to each other and by the time the end of the night comes you usually haven't even started to get to know each other. Unless of course, you **** her senseless in the back row.
 

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random chic contd

Hey guys... Dont think I did. I just said " If your interested want to do something you are free". However, I also mentioned if she wasnt interested "just take a pass and no worries" and she said in exact words" sounds like a good idea" and she has traded emails back and forth with me,questions, jokes etc. However, she still taking her damn time and pissing me off. About the movie thing, in agreement with you, but hey, never know what will happen. Cheers!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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