"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Random call

A

Alittude

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 23, 2005
Messages
177
Reaction score
1
Age
36
Location
Australia
About an hour ago this chick called Krystal calls me and knows my name and I have no idea who she is. She asks too meet up and i'm like how did you get my number and she said my friend is friends with her friend and said she saw a pic of me and thought I was really hot and got my number. I asked what friend and she siad she didn't remember the name. She asked again do you want to meet up after school on monday and I said I wasn't sure and shes going to call me over the weekend.

Any thought on what I should say/do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

S

Smooth Player 056

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2005
Messages
868
Reaction score
3
I would do it, no harm in meeting her.....or it could be a couple guys wanting to beat ur ass and they used her to lure you there
 
C

check_mate_kid_uk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 27, 2004
Messages
2,077
Reaction score
4
Location
UK
If you have doubts about somthing, theres a reason for it. Just get her email address first!
 
J

jenzos

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 29, 2005
Messages
88
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
I would do it, no harm in meeting her.....or it could be a couple guys wanting to beat ur ass and they used her to lure you there
Click to expand...
yeah id go with a friends just to be sure. you never know.
 
A

Anomalous

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
764
Reaction score
5
Originally posted by jenzos
yeah id go with a friends just to be sure. you never know.
Click to expand...
JUST ONE!!! Wow your going to be safe.

Might as well be practicing...............:kick:............then.........:cry:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

R

Random Hero

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 16, 2005
Messages
32
Reaction score
0
Ask her to email you a picture of herself. You don't want to show up and be meeting some mug.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top