"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ran into another chick I haven't seen in a year

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Went into the office of my financial advisor, oh looky there, the b*tch that out of the blue stopped talking to me for no real reason. I had no intentions of going any further than just being friendly when I first met her over a year ago, she's married and has kids.

When I met her I suspected she has issues, I gathered she wasn't raised by her biological father, her siblings are quite a bit younger different father. Other little things she said to me I could tell she's got baggage, she's running away from her problems. She can't seem to hold down a job this place where she's at now will be her 4th job in a year.

When I walked into the office I was surprised to see her I thought she moved away. She gave me a big smile then the sheepish eyes, got a feeling I made her nervous. I wasn't there to talk to her anyhow. She just cut off communication with me a year ago, ya you've got issues alright.

This post applies to my last post about millennial women seem to have mental health issues, she's a millennial.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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