"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Raise the Character Limit

Deep Dish

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One feature I loved from the old forums was reading long posts without interruption. Insightful classics like "Secret of the Jerk", "The Holy Grail of Dating", and "The Venus Dictionary: ******** Made Easy" wouldn't be the same if after every two screen fulls or so the reading was interrupted by the end of posts. It's annoying.

More than anything, it's tedious splitting long posts into multiple posts.

Upping the character limit would also cut down on the number of posts in the database, on the occasions when in fact there are large posts. One may easily say "Well who'd ever need more than 10,000 characters?", but writing exhaustively on one subject easily exceeds the limit.

The character limit is fine for the Discussions forum; who'd ever need to write more than 1,667 words (10,000 characters) on a situation; but at least for the Tips forum I suggest a higher limit of, say, 50,000 characters, or whatever was the previous limit.

Almost no one writes long, so all this doesn't affect 99% of them, but for those who do write long and have the ability to keep it interesting, they should be afforded a higher limit.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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