Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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met this girl, gave her my number. she calls. but i miss it. call her back 5 min later, no answer. (no idea why, any thoughts would be great)

do i call back, or wait until she does? i'm leaning towards the second option.

thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol funny question. i did this the other day with someone. i actually called first but she didn't answer and i tried again about 15-20 minutes later and she answered. if she didn't answer still i would of left it. she'll see it, if she wants she'll call back.
 
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I don't care how old school you are... I wouldn't call but I would text to set-up dates. That way she doesn't have to be right beside her phone the moment you call to answer it. High probability of response.
 
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PHAT Rabbit said:
My initial contact after getting her number is via text message. After I get a good banter going with her I'll call her up. If she doesn't answer I always leave a voicemail. "Hey this is PR...I'm eating cold pizza and it made me think of you. Hit me back." 100% of the time I get a call back -- but remember I've texted with her maybe at least 5 times back and forth. Most of the flaky chicks will text you once or twice and than that's it. Of course...I'll continue to send them stupid texts when I think of it.

Anyways - point is - if they don't answer leave a message. They almost always will call back...than it's just a game of phone tag til someone picks up. BTW I keep leaving messages too...it's a great way to flirt with them and build up intrigue. "Hey I was out saving homeless kittens and helping old ladies cross the street when you called...hit me back sugar pie."
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right, i think i fvcked up by not leaving a msg, something along the line of what you just said probably would have went a long way. i'm about to shoot her a text now and see whats up. thanks

Szyzzlin said:
I don't care how old school you are... I wouldn't call but I would text to set-up dates. That way she doesn't have to be right beside her phone the moment you call to answer it. High probability of response.
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def not old school or new school, just interested in what works hahaha. great point tho, a text sounds good
 
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