Quick question on text messaging

[Jeremymichael]

situation girl I like, seems to like me. Drink and laugh alot in bar
Me ask for phone number, as she ask for help moving a sun bed.
Get phone number. Me text later just to confirm no problem. No reply. Makes me feel nervous about approaching her
Met last night she invites me to go out to the sea side, when she
has her new car, I agree. Later in the evening in bar she goes to
talk to some other guy. Any ideas whats going on here?. Wouldn't
you reply out of curtosey if you got a text message, that or she
doesn't want me to contact her, but then why give me her number. O know she likes texting people, as I have seen her do it.

 

[GynecologyEnthusiast]

Originally posted by Jeremymichael
situation girl I like, seems to like me. Drink and laugh alot in bar
Me ask for phone number, as she ask for help moving a sun bed.

Why are you talking like Tarzan? Me think she want you as free muscle move furniture

Get phone number. Me text later just to confirm no problem. No reply. Makes me feel nervous about approaching her
Met last night she invites me to go out to the sea side, when she
has her new car, I agree. Later in the evening in bar she goes to
talk to some other guy. Any ideas whats going on here?.

Me think she know you be there move furniture whenever she want.

Wouldn't you reply out of curtosey if you got a text message, that or she doesn't want me to contact her, but then why give me her number. O know she likes texting people, as I have seen her do it.

Me think you should try use phone not text.

Unk.

 

[JJMcLure]

Why the fvck would you move some ho's furniture when you aren't fvcking her, unless you want a FRIEND. (Let me correct that, to be used and for you to think youre her friend).

Are you a removal guy or something?

Do you think she has an inkling you are attracted to her and would like to fvck her? Umm, yes. So quit moving furniture and start moving in on her. The more favours you do her without action, the weaker she thinks you are.

Of course she would fvckin' reply. But what's more important, you've learned NOT to use indirect communication. e.g. letters, e-mails, text messages, voicemails. It comes across lacing confidence.

Also, never call to confirm. It imples lack of confidence also.

You talk to her and in person or on the phone. Otherwise you lose control and you don't know what the situation is.

Why give you her phone number? Girls give their number out all the time. Some will even agree to dates and then break them. Again and again - they like guys chasing them to boost their ego and prove their are DESIRABLE. That is key to a woman.

Read the Bible, you need some good base knowledge.

 

[Jeremymichael]

me thinks, I lose interest with her and move on.

Ape man

 

[matius]

e.g. letters, e-mails, text messages, voicemails. It comes across lacking confidence.

Yes and no. Sometimes it's fun to shoot a text with something cool or funny to let your presence be known. I'm not sure what the ape was talking about. I can't read monkey bone.

 

[Jeremymichael]

Just thinking about it, whilst girls plays games it soon makes
me lose interest. The fact that she can't be a*sed to text me back,
has written her off with me. Thought it was just a bit fun texting
but she obviously is sending me into a silent void.

 

[GynecologyEnthusiast]

Originally posted by Jeremymichael
Just thinking about it, whilst girls plays games it soon makes
me lose interest. The fact that she can't be a*sed to text me back,
has written her off with me. Thought it was just a bit fun texting
but she obviously is sending me into a silent void.

Ape Man,

This is exactly why we don't use text messaging. Now she has control of the communications, not you.

I would prefer that you bang coconuts together or play your jungle tom tom rather than use text messaging. But a simple phone call works the best.

GE

 

[Jeremymichael]

very true, I understand I made a mistake, I'm bloody stupid.
She is now in control- Yuk, thats drink for you. I think I may
look for a new Jane...can I ask an honest opinion, based on my
**** up..what would you do?. Ignore next time I see her in the bar and talk and flirt with others, or just avoid the bar when she is there. Is it at all possible she is shy and doesn't know how to reply to me?

 

[GynecologyEnthusiast]

Be polite and pretend like the whole text thing never happened. Or wait a week or more and give her a phone call with something specific in mind to invite her to do with you.

 

[Jeremymichael]

By the way this site is excellent. Even though I know the answers,
as much is explained in the bible its great to share our experiences with others. I must stick to the advice on this board as I really respect it. By the way is there any articles on jealousy
or envy?

 

[The_King]

Look dude,

We have already answered your question on this....

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=27404

You could of saved yourself the lastest hassle!.

Me, thinks make a firm move on her, do a swing and grab!

 

[Jeremymichael]

Thanks mate, hate to be the bore who labours a point.
I know you gave me some answers earlier, just trying some others for advice.

I try grab her hand next week, if fail, then me will move on and find new Jane. I not beat my chest on this anymore!
new Jane