"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quick Myspace Question...

smeckle

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I've always had a thing for punk/scene chicks. And just found this effin' gorgeous girl on myspace while I was just goofing around.

What's the best way to write a pickup letter to some chick off of myspace?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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theunflushables

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"Hey, lets go see (insert local punk band here) they're playing at (insert location) on (insert date). "

Pretty simple really.
 

bachelor

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Don't write a pick up letter. Keep it casual... Oh your into punk music too? What are some of your favorite bands. Play it cool because if you right a pick up letter she'll think of you as all the other guys who write on there.
 

theunflushables

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Oh sh1t, you haven't talked to her yet? Ok, disregard my first post, I thought you had talked to her. Follow bachelor's advice, and then when it's time to ask out use mine.
 
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