"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quick Don Juan Test...

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You've gotten a number from girl off POF.

You text around 1pm Friday afternoon to suggest a meet for next week.

She replies at 10pm Friday night to agree to date and asks 'what are you doing tonight?'

How do you respond?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Me - "Going out with a friend. Why ?? "

Then see what she says. Make sure you meet her under your terms. Never fall flat at her feet or give yourself away to easy. She will value you more for doing so ;) .
 
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as its POF and I don't have a lot of time for it, id probably reply..."you if you want to come round "
 
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HERE'S HOW TO NOT ANSWER THIS:

"Nothing. You?"

Or any permutation.


MODERATELY OKAY RESPONSE:

"Out with friends"


RESPONSE TO GET HER OUT THAT NIGHT:

"Hanging with friends at XYZ bar. Ditching them for [another bar] in about 30 minutes. Meet me there."
 
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