"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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S.Y.L

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coolf1r3 said:
popularity doesn't matter

just be confident and comfortable and she'll naturally be attracted to you :]
I have improved being confident. I seriously thought she was starting to be attracted a bit, she gave me a hug and talked to me non stop.

Then she said im annoying her a little...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HONESTLY MAN! how many times has she done this..get all friendly and then call you an annoyin son of a glue stick :cheer: :box: is that fukin smiley facea man or woman...ANYWAYS

It seems as though she has done this 5 times already....CALL HER ON IT..AM I FUKIN ANNOYIN YOU OR NOT...not in those words..and not so rudely...ask her out soemwhere and figure it out..or you'll be back here sayin she said you were annoyin her again..if she's initiating contact and prolonging it just to call you annoyin in the end..tell her to make up her damn mind..

you won't get anywhere if you dont ask her somewhere
 

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jeffthechef said:
HONESTLY MAN! how many times has she done this..get all friendly and then call you an annoyin son of a glue stick :cheer: :box: is that fukin smiley facea man or woman...ANYWAYS

It seems as though she has done this 5 times already....CALL HER ON IT..AM I FUKIN ANNOYIN YOU OR NOT...not in those words..and not so rudely...ask her out soemwhere and figure it out..or you'll be back here sayin she said you were annoyin her again..if she's initiating contact and prolonging it just to call you annoyin in the end..tell her to make up her damn mind..

you won't get anywhere if you dont ask her somewhere
reason she thought i was annoying is because i was really clingy. Like I followed her everywhere in an annoying way, thats why people were beginning to thing we were going out.
 

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jeffthechef said:
definitely dont follow her aorund...and "that's why people thought we were going out"" so was she getitng annoyed by the fact that everyone thought you guys were going out?

not a good sign is it :p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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jeffthechef said:
definitely dont follow her aorund...and "that's why people thought we were going out"" so was she getitng annoyed by the fact that everyone thought you guys were going out?
She didnt say anything about it to me or her friends...

Btw, me and my friend hung out with her at her house for 5 hours today after school. I stopped being clingy and, she doesn't find me annoying right.
 
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