"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anyone had any success telling stories to your target about how some other chick before her was a bad first date?

I am thinking of running with this. It shows value (you are dating) and gives you the power.

AM I off on this? Any advice before I run with this one?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've done like 20 of those. Works 100% of the time.. Go for it.

Tell us what happens.
 
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As long as you can do this without coming off too negative it's not a bad idea.
 
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Now I haven't done that, I just said I did to make you feel more confident and go out and do it.. :D
 
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Yes and no. Yes, it implies value because you've had other dates, but no because it links negative emotions to your interactions. Better by far to tell a story where you went out and had a great time, and just happened to be with another girl at the time.

Subtlety is key here. When conveying social value, don't directly tell her anything she could conceivably figure out for herself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women you're trying to game hate it when you mention other women around them, even in a nagative sense. It's a comparison, and they don't dig it.
It almost begs her to start asking ****-test questions like, "Do you think my friend is prettier than me?"
 
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