"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Questions you ask to get to know her better??

Crissco

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I usually ask how are her relashionship with her parents/father..

What are some of yours?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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telling and asking her stupid stories of childhood..usually i share some of my amusing/funny stories which makes her laugh n become comfortable after which she opens up and shares her stories..also they're quite open ended so conversation keeps going

also her interest in art,history,travelling,current events etc coz if im goin to be serious with her then she has to be sumwat knowledgeable..i cant stand bimbos
 

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Do you prefer ass-to-mouth or backdoor to frontdoor?

Do you swallow or use it like Oil of Olay?

Can you make a peanut butter pie?

Who gives a sh!t about her life? You're not going to marry her unless she says yes to all of the above anyway.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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