Questions to build her Interest and Conversations, few dates later

[Von]

Hi Guys,

I've had this little question in my head.... been seeing this girl for 2 months now officially.

It's great and going well.

Yet, my competitive side and ''insecurities'' makes me wonder... how can I make it better?

My feeling is after a while, the spark dies and we start acting more ''friendly''

Like a couple of guys here who end after 6months, 9 months...

So this thread is all about Asking Her Questions or Making Discussions Topics with her... that would spark her interest, emotional involvement etc... Not breaking the ice questions but more deepening stuff.

Any questions or discussions topics, you bring with a girl after a while? Myself I am wondering what stuff I could say to stay ''stronger value'' like the initial phase

Ex: Passions, Favorite Dish, Colours, Games, Underwear arrangements etc

 

[darksprezzatura]

The best seducers I've known and seen in action are extremely patient non judgmental listeners.
Once you've attracted her, make her qualify herself.

Ask her questions about times during her childhood when she was the happiest. Keep exploring. Use how, when, where, why.

Explore her passions, her dreams and hold back that urge to jump in and compete with her by telling her your own stories to match hers.

Ever heard women talk about being in love with mysterious guys?

They love them without knowing anything about them because they invested the things they loved about themselves by sharing them.

From a psychological point of view they aren't investing because they like you, they like you because they invested themselves in you.

I personally love women, despite their stupidity and shallowness at times, they have stories, perspectives and ideas which have helped me grow.