Question to really handsome guys

[CornbreadFed]

I disagree. If one is good looking. Most people will agree. While that person may not be everyone’s cup of tea.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I had a friend that was really good looking. Women would approach him in bars all the time. He was pretty much clueless. He had no idea how to converse, yet these girls kept trying to get him to talk.

Goes to a conversation had here https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/the-velocity-of-chad.284364/

Physical attractiveness is akin to intelligence and talent: It's of little to no benefit, unless one makes a conscious decision to harness such attributes + Use them sagaciously

Traditionally/classically handsome men get written off as drab Gregory Peck/Ed Burns types, when they come across more dimensionless than KStew in f-ck-ng Twilight, get passed over for schlubs like this

, who at least seem like they'll bring fire into her life

 

[tksniper]

Not sure how many of you fall into the "very handsome guys" category (certainly not me) but I was always curious how females interact with really handsome guys i.e.:
- how often are you messaged first by distant aquaintances (females) that you have met just recently or on dating apps?
- how is interaction flowing with females that approach you first in non-romantic manner (i.e. how often it is in fact their way to approach you later in romantic manner or allow you to approach them like that)?
- how often are you informed (whether directly or indirectly) that this or that woman is into you?
- how direct are females about idea of being sexual.with you?
- how often females simp for you/do you favours?

Hard to say if I am handsome or not but I'm completely covered in tattoos and that appeals to a certain demographic of women so I'll answer your questions

1- Right now I have a backlog of chicks I need to visit that ive met on tinder. And they are all open for casual. I even got propositioned for a 3 some with a woman and her bf and I said no lol. That's weird.

2- women usually do indirect game. They'll talk to a guy next to me and then advertise how single they are waiting for me to jump the bait. If I ignore them long enough they eventually give me that "longing" look from afar. Every now and then a woman would go out of her way to seduce me.

3 - women usually communicate through body language. Most won't verbally tell you. They'll tell you on a non verbal level. Most players can pick up on this. Have you ever seen a player and a hot chick leave together despite barely haven spoken to each other?

4 - Penis is abundant. Most women who want me want that taboo experience with a tatted up bad boy looking dude. So 99% of women who pursue me are only after sex because I'm a specialized dude.

5. Asian and black girls simp for me the most for some reason. Has something to do with how a lot of Asian chicks are closer freaks and want a taboo and black chicks are just straight up sexual freaks. And latinas too. If anything I would say latinas play the least amount of games with me. I've had latina women call me "babe" upon first convo.

If you want to see a pic of me , send me a message. The sosuave server said my pic was too large for the server so I couldnt upload it for you all to see.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

There's no need for sharing photo, I find your post perfectly believable taking under considersation my knowledge about female behaviour or attraction patterns (they like to fantasize a lot and your tattoos may satisfy their various fantasies concerning having sex with "bad boy").

What I find the most interesting (taking under consideration all that was written here) is that females tend to rely heavily on IOIs, body language and indirect communication with men even if very interested in particular man - therefore they need that often totally false edge of feeling desired by men to feel desire themselves (or rather invest themselves emotionally to the level necessary for having sex with him - even if it will be just ONS so just a short "here&next several hours" investment) therefore man needs first to cross all the crucial steps that lead to sexual encounter (even if female very closely follow) - meaning overall modus operandi for even very handsome guys may be generally the same as for the rest of us - the difference is that they have much more possibilities for "turkey shooting" in dating game and will face low to no resistance if females are interested in them.

 

[tksniper]

There's no need for sharing photo, I find your post perfectly believable taking under considersation my knowledge about female behaviour or attraction patterns (they like to fantasize a lot and your tattoos may satisfy their various fantasies concerning having sex with "bad boy").

What I find the most interesting (taking under consideration all that was written here) is that females tend to rely heavily on IOIs, body language and indirect communication with men even if very interested in particular man - therefore they need that often totally false edge of feeling desired by men to feel desire themselves (or rather invest themselves emotionally to the level necessary for having sex with him - even if it will be just ONS so just a short "here&next several hours" investment) therefore man needs first to cross all the crucial steps that lead to sexual encounter (even if female very closely follow) - meaning overall modus operandi for even very handsome guys may be generally the same as for the rest of us - the difference is that they have much more possibilities for "turkey shooting" in dating game and will face low to no resistance if females are interested in them.

It also depends on the venue as well. I've had women leave their dates to make out with me at bars, women dancing with me directly. And women openly mentioning we should hang out when I meet them at house parties. In those situations inhibitions are down.

But in the work place, classroom, park, coffee shop, gym, etc, women rely heavily on iois. The best thing you can do as a good looking guy is to park yourself at a corner in at coffee shop away from the crowd. Or use an exercise ma home away from people. Allow her to give you proximity. Have open and friendly body language so that she can feel safe to park herself next to you and maybe even talk to you.

I've messed this up a few times by placing myself at the center of attention. This puts way too much pressure for any woman who is attracted to me. She will feel like she's on stage and everyone is watching her.

Dark corners are a player's best friend.